March 26, 2019 was a day I’ll never forget.
Early that morning, I got a phone call from my sister that our mom was put on life support.
I was a block away at a different hospital dealing with another emergency. A CT scan confirmed that Miles had a potential fracture in his wrist as well as a broken leg. I felt heartbroken and confused.
I couldn’t accompany him to his X-ray or visit my mother. Instead, I had to meet with an abuse doctor and Special Victims Unit detectives.
A week after the X-ray, we had a Child Safety Conference with ACS. Everything neutral was made into a negative.
Around the same time, there was a story in the news about a white actress, Jenny Mollen. She had dropped her son and he fractured his skull. She talked openly about how hard it was for her as a mother and that she was so thankful for the hospital staff. They didn’t question her motives.
Our babies were both hurt unintentionally – but we were treated very differently.